An Ode to My Daughter on Her Ninth Birthday

Today my daughter turned nine. This is wild to me. Kids grow up too fast. I know it's a cliche, but time does truly fly by when you have kids. I feel like she was born yesterday. Oh boy.

In reality, she is a fierce, strong, loyal, stubborn and beautiful 3rd grader. She loves to read, enjoys Disney movies, likes "The Simpsons" and is a very creative and inventive writer. She could easily take over my blog today if she wanted. She is very smart, very friendly and smiles way more often than she frowns. She likes jokes, both hearing and telling them. She is very into science projects and she can sit down and write and draw a cartoon in a day if she wanted to. She is the best.

The whole world changed for me when we had a daughter. I grew up with three older brothers. I am my father's child. We do a ton together, be it movies, music or sports, my dad and I hang out a bunch. My wife is pretty girly, but she also likes what she likes and does what she does. She isn't into makeup or dressing up or any of that unless the situation calls for it. She rules. We had a son first, and he is all about sports, music and video games. He does the stuff I did when I was younger. He loves football, basketball and Fortnite. He is a typical 7th grader. Our daughter, she is into a bunch of stuff that I never really thought about until she was born. She loves getting her hair done. For her birthday today, she went and got a trim, glitter put in her hair and two braids. It looks dynamite by the way. She is really into Disney princesses like I mentioned above. When I was younger I was all about "Lion King" and "Aladdin". She loves "The Little Mermaid", "Princess and the Frog" and "Moana" just to name a few. I never sought these movies out, nor were they an option that came up until our daughter was born. She is in her short shorts and big t-shirt era right now. I guess this is what most young kids like to dress like now. But, she had a big dress phase when she was younger. She would not leave the house unless she was in a dress. I found myself shopping for dresses for her when she was younger. I never did that before. She likes to hold hands and give hugs. We showed love in our house growing up, but it was never physically shown. It was an understood thing in the house. My daughter wants to hold hands when I take her to bed or give me a smooch when she's in a good mood or she will give me long hugs after I pick her up from school. And she is very much into how soft her stuffies are and has a bed filled with stuffed animals, some of which she has done their makeup on. Makeup is another thing that I never, ever thought about nine years ago. All of this is awesome and I love that I now know about all this stuff. She has opened my eyes to things that were never on my radar. I'm all in on the Disney princess stuff. Now I give her my race shirts to wear because they're oversized. I know more about Taylor Swift than I thought possible. I let her paint my nails all the time. I love the affection that she brings and has brought out of the rest of us. My kids both bring different things to the table and I am forever grateful that they're in my life.

Happy birthday baby girl. I love you and I am so excited to see the person you grow up to be. Just slow down with all that growing up so fast. 

Ty

Ty is the Pop Culture editor for SeedSing and the other host of the X Millennial Man Podcast.

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