RIP Pele

Pele died the other day at the age of 82. That is a nice long life lived. He was a very good person from what I know. Also he was one of the greatest athletes of my lifetime.

I have mentioned many times on the site and the podcast how little I know about soccer. It's a sport I've never played, don't watch and am not all that invested in. I wasn't good at it when I played pickup soccer so it never stayed with me. I couldn't tell you who Messi or Neymar is without my 10 year old letting me know. I only know Diego Maradona for his off field antics. But I do know who Pele is, or was for that matter. His name has always been mentioned when people talk about the greatest athletes of all time. When "The Simpsons" did an entire episode about soccer, Pele showed up to play himself. I know what the Brazil soccer jersey looks like because of all the pictures I have seen in my lifetime of Pele. I understand the breadth he held in the sports world and the world for that matter.

Pele transcended sports. He was a global icon. He was the GOAT before any of us used that acronym. Little kids know who he is. I can go to a basketball practice for my team right now and the kids have no idea who guys like Shawn Kemp or Grant Hill are. I go to baseball and get side eye views when I bring up Vlad Guerrero or Dave Winfield. Young football players look aghast when I tell them Jerry Rice is better than any wide out today. Or god help me if I say Barry Sanders is the best back of all time. But all the little kids I have helped coach or know their parents that play soccer all know who Pele is. Pele is as synonymous to soccer as Michael Jordan and LeBron James are to basketball, but I don't think people would argue with you over Pele being the greatest soccer player of all time. I don't have any stats or anything like that to go off of because of my lack of knowledge in the sport. But the sheer fact that I know who Pele is/was, that I know he played soccer, that he revolutionized the game, that people asked him to come to America to play to try and make it popular, that should speak volumes to the person Pele was. There will never be another like him. Pele is an original. He was Messi before Messi. Neymar before Neymar. I remember when Freddy Adu was all the rage and people tried to say he was going to be the next Pele. Those shoes were far too big to fill and it never happened for Adu. That is because no one else could ever live up to Pele. He is the generational soccer player. If soccer had a logo it would be Pele. He was a do it all type player. He was also so great that, as mentioned before, people in the US enticed him to come play in America just to try and drum up interest in the most popular sport in the rest of the world.

Pele will be missed. He did live a long, fulfilling life. But still, when an icon like this passes it always leaves a dent. It always makes you go back and reminisce about that person. Rest In Peace Pele. Go play, and dominate, some soccer wherever you are now. 

Ty

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My Life as an I9 Sports Instructor

Required Atheletic Equipment for Adults teaching kids

As most of you know, I am a coach/instructor for a company called i9 Sports here in Saint Louis. With today being the eve before our basketball season starts, I wanted to take my time today to talk about how much fun I have doing this job, and why this is a great program for young kids that want to learn how to play a sport.

I took a job as an instructor for i9 Sports about 2 and a half years ago. I was a coach first for my son's tee ball team, and doing some internet searching, I saw that they were looking for instructors. I thought this was something I would really love to do. I applied, and by the start of the fall season that year, I was an employee. From the start, I loved what I was doing. I got to play sports with kids, and I got paid for it. Also, the hours were awesome, especially for a stay at home dad. I work on the weekends, when my wife is home, so it was great. I usually only have to work 5, sometimes 6 hours on Saturday's and Sunday's. With the start of basketball season tomorrow, I will be working 8 hours, but I couldn't be happier, because I get to play basketball all day. At the start of my time as an official employee I was hooked. I was hired to be a soccer instructor, and not knowing much about the game, I studied up on it quite a bit. Also, my boss is a soccer expert, and he helped me out a lot. My main thing was just to be very energetic with the kids, especially our first group. 

What i9 does, they start the day with the youngest age group, ages 3 and 4, and get older as the day goes on. This was also perfect for me, since I have 2 young kids of my own. This made the transition to soccer instructor easier for me. Like I said, I used my energy, and the kids fed off that. They were very much into all the games and drills we did, and so was I. I found myself enjoying a sport that I had never played before. I also enjoyed learning about the game as well. And seeing the kids progress with soccer, from the first week to the last week, it was amazing. I had kids that didn't want to play, that picked grass, that needed to stay near their folks in week one, that, by week 7, they were running all over the field, kicking the ball to their teammates, and some of them were putting it into the goal with ease. Our seasons last around 7 weeks, and to see the progression was amazing. As I said, kids that wouldn't play in week one, or didn't know how to play in week one, they had the game figured out by week 5, and in week 7, they had it down pat. It was incredible.

As that first fall season progressed, I got to do some tee ball instructing too. I was thrilled, since this is one of the three sports that I have played since I was 3 years old. I had a ton of fun instructing tee ball. I found out that I love to teach kids how to play a sport, as opposed to getting involved in hyper competitive leagues where it is all about whether you lose the game or win the game. That is probably my favorite thing about the culture of i9 Sports. We want to teach the kids how to play as opposed to just throwing them out there in a competitive environment. This is why tee ball was such a blast for me. I got to teach kids that may have never held a bat before how to hit a ball. I showed them how to throw and catch. I taught them how to field grounders and throw the ball to first base. And, just like soccer, the progression from the first week to the last was exceptional. I had some 3 and 4 year olds, by week 5, they wanted me to soft toss pitch to them. They felt confident enough to get rid of the tee and let me pitch the ball. I also had kids that finally understood how important playing the field is in a sport like baseball. At first, all the kids want to do is hit because it is fun. But, you instill in them how important defense is, but also make it fun, and they grow to like playing in the field almost as much as hitting. Tee ball is still one of my favorite sports to instruct.

When my son turned 4 he told my wife and I that he wanted to try out flag football. I then got to do some football instructing. This was just as fun, if not more so, than tee ball. Teaching young kids that want to learn the fundamentals of an intricate sport like football may sound tough, but when the kids want to learn, it is a blast. The kids listened to me and the other instructors. They didn't come in with an air of superiority to us. They knew we were their teachers, and they listened intently. I loved watching the youngest group learn how to take handoffs, pull on the opponents flag and, some of them, learn how to run routes and catch passes. As the age groups got older in football, it was even more fun. We could teach them plays. They already had some knowledge of the game. And some kids, we let them run the show. Some of the best football games I have seen have been on an i9 field in the spring and fall. These kids really love the game, were eager to learn and showed what they had learned on the field.

Finally, I was asked to be a basketball instructor after my first season with i9. One of the parent coaches had asked me if I was going to do basketball because his son wanted me to be his instructor. That is one of the best compliments that I have ever gotten. When a kid says something you know they are being genuine because they have no filter. I of course said yes to basketball because it is my favorite sport. Basketball at i9 is so awesome. The practice, the drills, the games, everything about the program is perfect. We have dribbling, shooting and passing stations for practice, and we teach the kids how to play zone defense. It is the best. Then they take what they have learned in that first 30 minutes, and apply it to game action. And when you see a kid make their first basket or throw that perfect pass or grab the rebound or steal the ball, it is a thing of wonder. The smiles on their faces are priceless. The same thing goes for basketball as it does for football. With the young kids it is pretty much all about the instruction. As the kids get older, we kind of take the reins off and teach them to play, but also let them play. And like I have said with all the other sports, the progression from start to finish is amazing. I'm very excited to start our basketball season tomorrow.

For parents contemplating getting their kids into sports, I think i9 is a great program for all ages. We start at age 3 and go all the way up to 11, sometimes 12. So, if you have a 3,4, 5 or 6 year old that just wants to learn the game, i9 is the best jumping off point. We spend most of our time as instructors, teaching. For the 7-11 year olds, it is more about the fundamentals and the smaller parts of the game that may get lost, we teach that to the kids. Every sport is coed as well. Our sessions are 1 hour long for most age groups. So, it is one day, on the weekends, for one hour. We do about a 30 minute practice, followed by a 30 minute game for ages up to 7. For the older kids, they get an extra 15 minutes. The commitment isn't too much.

I love this company. I'm so glad to be a part of something so cool and fun. I know that there are i9 franchises all over the US too. I work for the Saint Louis i9, but I know of leagues in Florida, Colorado, Ohio and Arizona. i9 Sports is awesome and I think it is the best way to get kids involved in sports.

Ty

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What the Death of Dave Mirra Tells us about all Sports

We should study CTE, not just lay blame

It was recently released that deceased BMX biker Dave Mirra had CTE at the time of his suicide. This is a tragic event that could have been stopped had Mirra gotten the correct medical attention. He clearly had a lot of demons in his closet and he had some brain trauma from all the trick bike riding he did in his life. This was an avoidable tragedy.

The reason for my blog today is how little coverage this story is getting on major sports networks. Once again, the Fox Sports and ESPN's of the world are criminally under reporting this story, and I think it has to do with Mirra's chosen profession. Had he been a football player, this story would be reported on ad nauseam. I know that this is a touchy subject, but dammit, all the pro and non pro athletes that suffer from CTE deserve as much coverage as all football players get when they die and their brains are studied and it's found that they have CTE.

ESPN and Fox Sports have not stopped talking about Junior Seau's untimely suicide, and they strictly blame it all on football. Well, Seau chose to play football. He was very good at football and he turned it into a hall of fame career, but when he took his own life, the people that are trying to rid the world of football strictly blamed it all on the hits he took on the field. Yes, that is the main cause of the brain trauma, but there has to be some other things, non football related things, that went into his suicide. I don't think he woke up with a football headache one day and decided it was time to punch out, I'm pretty positive there were some other things going on.

The people that want football outlawed are on a mission to make this game seem so violent that it causes people to take their own lives. They want everyone else to think that the only reason former football players do the weird and violent things they do is because of all the hits they took and nothing else. I understand that football is a violent game, it's meant to be, but the people that play know what they are getting themselves into. You go into football knowing the possible repercussions. I knew when I played that I could get concussions or broken limbs or tear muscles, it was a part of the game.

I also played baseball and basketball, and let me tell you, I could have gotten just as badly injured playing those other two sports. I was a pitcher in baseball, and any time I stepped on a mound, I could have been hit in the head with a 100 mile per hour line drive. I've seen in real time, and on TV, pitchers get hit in the face and it is not pretty. There is so much blood and blurred vision and, sometimes, even loss of consciousness. Basketball, while I think it is the most athletic of any sport I have ever played, there are many times I have banged my head on the hardwood floor, or was smacked across the face and head by an opposing player, or I was hit in the face with a basketball coming at me at a decent speed, all those things and more. I knew those risks and I still chose to play. But, no one ever bad mouthed me for playing baseball or basketball the way they did when I played football. Baseball and basketball where never considered as dangerous as football was. The people that didn't like me playing football said that I would get injured and I would suffer headaches the rest of my life and I would be sore and my knees and legs would hurt forever, but, I have more soreness from basketball in my knees and legs than I do from football. Baseball was more terrifying to me because of the constant threat of a smoked liner back to my face than someone blind side blocking me in a football game.

Football was, and is, dangerous, but it is no more dangerous than baseball, basketball, soccer, hockey, or now even, BMX. Hockey and soccer are just as violent as football. The players helmets in hockey are so much smaller and have such little padding, I bet way more hockey players than football players suffer from CTE, but it never gets covered like football. I instruct young kids in soccer, and I have seen so many of them take a soccer ball to the face, and I think, at least they aren't pros, because that would have been a concussion, but no one bad mouths soccer. Soccer is the most played sport among kids in the US, and I bet a ton of retired soccer players suffer from CTE from taking too many soccer balls to the face or from doing headers, but it never gets reported. Even cheerleading is so much more risky than football. At any moment, while doing a human pyramid, or a drop from a twist or flip, you can be dropped directly on your head. I can almost guarantee that current and former cheerleaders greatly suffer from CTE.

To bring it all back to my original point, we now see that BMX can have just as dangerous results as football. No one would have ever thought that Dave Mirra would have CTE. Hell, I barely knew anything about Mirra until I heard that he had taken his own life. It is a tragedy and my heart goes out to his friends and family, but why won't ESPN talk about him and what happened more? He was a legend in his particular sport, and the only thing ESPN has done is put on their crawl that he committed suicide and that he had CTE. They have done little to nothing as far as an anchor talking about Mirra and the demons he had, and his CTE. BMX has always looked dangerous to me. Those bike riders do some of the most daring and reckless stunts that I have ever seen. I get nervous going down a big hill on my bike, so to see these pro BMXers do things like flips and twists and jumps off humongous ramps, it was equal parts exciting and terrifying to me. I always thought that it was dangerous, but it was also pretty cool. Then, as I got older, I noticed that the helmets and the padding these riders wore weren't that protective. BMXers looked like they cared a bit more about cool looking pads that actual protective pads. Whenever they took a fall, I was very worried that the riders wouldn't get up. When they did get up, they looked woosy and wobbly. They clearly had a concussion, but they kept going back out there. I know a lot of people bad mouth the NFL's concussion protocol, but if these BMXers could go out and do a stunt an hour after a brutal fall, what was their concussion protocol like?

I would hope that channels like Fox Sports and ESPN would give this more coverage and explain the dangers involved in BMX riding after what may be their biggest star ever takes their own life, but they instead want to focus on what Johnny Manziel is doing or how the Yankees are playing or who is LeBron blaming now. It's sickening that they have barely covered the Dave Mirra tragedy at all. They have all but pushed it to the side and that is sad. If the Fox Sports and the ESPN's of the world are going to continue to tell us how dangerous football is, they need to tell us how dangerous every other sport is. There is danger everywhere you go when you choose to play sports, it's not just in football. The big wigs at the big channels need to inform the general public of this. It is their job and they are doing shitty work. They may want to end football, but former pro athletes, in every pro sport, most likely has some form of CTE, and until they get the same coverage, the war against football will wage on. That is a sad state of affairs. It's tragic that Dave Mirra took his life, but it's disrespectful and tasteless the way that the major sports channels and media outlets are barely talking about it. It's truly a shame.

RIP Dave Mirra.

Ty 

Ty is the Pop Culture editor for SeedSing and the other host of the X Millennial Man Podcast. Follow him on twitter @tykulik.

Ty does not give a pass to garbage people like Hope Solo

Why the double standard for Hope Solo?

By all accounts she's a garbage person who goes on national TV and lies and then sees no discipline from the US Women's National Soccer team. She blatantly lied and was made to look like the victim when she was the instigator. She physically beat up her sister and her nephew, but when she saw an opportunity for a "redemption" story from the Today Show and ESPN The Magazine, she decided that she could lie herself into looking like a victim. The fact that her nephew is 6'7 and about 280 pounds, who would question her, she has an athlete's body, but she is still smallish. But her sister is much smaller than she is, so why did no one question this at the time. Well, it looks like one (and only one) group in the ESPN family, Outside the Lines, decided it was time to go back and look at the police records and they found quite the treasure trove. Apparently Hope Solo called at least two of the police officers a gay slur, called them 14 year old boys, and when they asked her to remove a necklace, she told them that it was worth more money than they make in a year. Now, I'm not a fan of police officers, especially in the town of Ballwin in St. Louis County, but I have at least the dignity and the respect to not talk to authority like that.

Hope Solo seems to have a  speaking tone like the one employed by trash people who live in the gutter. Why does she think she is so much better than these police officers? Why does she think she can hit people and get away with it? Does she believe she can get away with this type of behavior because she's good at soccer? Spoiler alert, most Americans don't care about soccer. And you're not some world class athlete with sponsorships coming out of your ears. If Outside the Lines hadn't done this story, I wouldn't be able to pick her out of a police lineup, which I'm sure she's been in a ton. This isn't her first domestic abuse case either. She's had at least one other incident that's been reported. So she's had, at the very least, two reported domestic violence cases and yet team USA soccer does nothing in the way of discipline. She gets to travel with the team and play soccer and when reporters ask her about the cases, she deflects the question and says she just wants to talk about soccer. Spoken like someone who's guilty. What Adrian Peterson and Ray Rice did was just as bad. They are both big time athletes, one who knocked his wife out cold in an elevator, the other who beat up his 4 year old child, at least faced some consequences from the NFL. Both of them got suspended, without pay, for an entire season. They did terrible, horrible, unforgivable things to women and children and at least faced some form of discipline. Hell, Ray Rice still has not been signed by a team, because I think, no one wants that kind of PR nightmare. So, I ask the question again, why the double standard for Hope Solo? Yes, she's a woman and there's barely any cases of a woman being the aggressor in domestic disputes but, coming from my mom who works in the social work field, the disputes when they involve a female as the chief instigator are treated the same as when the man is the instigator. And good for Hope Solo's sister for coming out and speaking out in defense of herself and her son. These abusers need to realize that they can't get away with the horrible crimes they are committing by beating people up. You shouldn't stand for it and if someone is abusing you seek professional help. There are people out there to protect you from the Ray Rice's and the Hope Solo's of the world. So, shame on you Hope Solo and USA Women's soccer. You are just helping this horrible person think they can do whatever they want because they are good at a sport.

Adrian Peterson, Ray Rice, Hope Solo, and their media enablers disgust me.

Ty

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